Wednesday, April 3, 2019

What's On Your Mind...

Y::    Hey Mona!

M::     Hey whats up?

Y::     Question?

M::     Oh Boy! 
Y::    Whats the difference between resilience &                                        determination?



re*sil*ience
noun 1. the capicity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness.

 de*ter*mi*na*tion
noun 1. firmness of purpose' resolute

M:: Well, are we talking dictionary definitions?






Y::    Well I know what the dictionary definition says but whats your definition? Lets Talk!

M::    Okay,  I personally think the line is fine when you're showing the difference between those two but I think they definitely go hand in hand.

Y::    In what way?

M::    Well, a resilient person makes adjustments even when faced with adversity and they have astounding ability to bounce back when faced with hurdles or huge obstacles. And determination, well it's goal driven, you've decided what you want and you're getting it no matter how many no's you get, how many doors are shut, you keep driving by any means necessary to reach your goal.                        Whats your take on it?


Y:: That's a good point I agree, I guess I was asking and the answer is yes, that it takes the same qualities for both to be a resilient person and to possess  determination. I think having a goal in both cases is definitely key! What do you do to get there?

M::    I think that if you know what you want you set a goal to get it. Talk about your goals and to me, here's a major point. DON'T be afraid to believe in YOU! If you don't believe in your goal first, its going to be difficult to get any one else to by into it. Then make moves EVERYDAY, one step beats ZERO!

Y::    You make a good point! Ok, well I'm determined NOT to buy more then 2 pairs of shoes on JustFab (my goal) and when the ads keep popping up about additional coupons and more dollars off trying (hurdles & obstecles) to break me down,  just when I'm about to give in, I'll show I'm resilient, I'll bounce back to my senses and ultimately only buy 2 pairs of shoes on JustFab .  See, determined to stick to my goal to only buy two pairs of shoes on JustFab ! 



M:: You're a mess! Get back to work. TTYL.